Bia Self exists to help women heal through slow, intentional self-pleasure.

Pleasure isn’t something you need to earn or chase. It’s already within you, and we’re here to help you find your way back.

We offer tools that invite women to reconnect with their bodies, not as something to fix or improve, but as a home.

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Unveil Dual Pleasure WandUnveil Dual Pleasure Wand

Unveil Dual Pleasure Wand

$49.95
$69.95
$49.95
Black Obsidian Release G-Spot Pleasure WandBlack Obsidian Release G-Spot Pleasure Wand

Black Obsidian Release G-Spot Pleasure Wand

$114.95
$139.95
$114.95
White Jade Sooth Pleasure WandWhite Jade Sooth Pleasure Wand

White Jade Sooth Pleasure Wand

$114.95
$139.95
$114.95
Green Aventurine Evolve Pleasure WandGreen Aventurine Evolve Pleasure Wand

Green Aventurine Evolve Pleasure Wand

$84.95
$104.95
$84.95

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After a difficult breakup, I was left feeling disconnected and emotionally drained. A friend recommended the obsidian crystal wand to help with my healing process. I was amazed at how much it helped me. The grounding energy of the obsidian allowed me to release old emotional wounds and start fresh.

Lara

I've dealt with sexual pain for what feels like forever, and it really affected my self-esteem and relationship. After hearing positive things, I decided to give the jade crystal wand a try. It's been a game-changer!

Marie-Christine

I can't express how grateful I am for my rose quartz crystal wand. I’ve been dealing with chronic stress and anxiety for years, and nothing seemed to help. The gentle energy of the rose quartz helps me release negative emotions and focus on self-love. It's become an essential part of my healing journey. Thank you for offering such a transformative product!

Anonymous

Can't say enough good things about Bia Self and their incredible crystal wands. I purchased a quartz wand, and it has truly transformed my self-care routine. The quality of the crystal is exceptional, and the energy it emits is just wonderful.

Sarah-Line

I hadn’t touched myself in months. The first time I used my wand, I cried... not from pain, but from finally feeling safe.

Lily

I used to feel so much shame around self-pleasure. Now, it feels like an act of love, not performance.

Camille

How to choose your wand

Each wand carries its own energy, a unique way of supporting healing, grounding, or emotional release.

There’s no perfect choice. Only the one that meets you where you are.

Not sure where to start? Use our healing guide.

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